Serious problems before ... I am just taking responsibility for my part. He failed to meet MOST of my ENs for the last several years. But I could have handled it better.

We did 1 session w/ the Harleys. Then I found out more about the extent of the "friendship" with this OW and gave him the option for separation. He chose to go (sort of - most of his stuff is still here). I don't think I can sit at dinner w/ the in-laws and pretend everything is ok, I don't know.

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