Thank you for your kind advice. I will certainly take it to heart and use it. I hope that both you and MEDC realize that I am not saying those things TO him ... I haven't called him since he left other than to return his calls, and at that time we discuss family business and say "have a good day". I am still trying to Plan A him - this is more of a journal for me, if you will, not a play book. I have chosen this as the place to write down my thoughts, fears, frustrations, loves, cares, concerns, and happenings and to seek advice on them. I have been so fortunate to have the people here reach out and understand what I am going through and to also offer advice from the other side.

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