Well, I did it again. I took a giant step back. I confronted him on the OW. I told him that I knew about her and he asked who. Told him I wasn't going to play games, he knew who I was talking about. He changed the subject to my A and asked what was wrong with me. I told him that I screwed up and am changing! He said maybe it was his turn to screw up, maybe we should just get really separated or D, and if we were meant to be together, we would. I told him that I would still like to work on this M - I will still do whatever it takes, no matter what. He said he knew everything and asked if I wanted to base the future of our relationship on lies, so I was O&H - told him I'd looked at the phone bill and know about OW. His response - "We're just friends. I'm allowed to have friends." I told him he could have friends, but people were talking about them and I'd heard he's kissed her. He denied it. I ended the conversation. I royally screwed up this time around.

Bring on the 2x4s ...