What if, instead of calling her, I talk with him...

i think talk would take too long. if/when she comes up just say "well, i dont like her and she needs to go." OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT and then drop it. there is no reason to talk about it. i would be careful when this is said because i think (i KNOW) it could turn into a fight and you want to be careful not to LB. so prepare yourself ahead of time, if you are going to do this, for what he might say and have a comeback that will not be lb (does crying work?)

where would he go if you kicked him out.

didnt you have an appt with a lawyer? did i miss that?

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