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is he still going on about the separated thing?

Not really - I think at this point its assumed I'm clear on that point.

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when is he coming home? i think you two need a night out doing something that you both enjoy. do you think he would go with you?

He'll be back in town Saturday night and home all day Sunday (assuming he doesn't spend the night out Sat). He goes out of town again Mon. and DD & I go to the beach that day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Then we are all back in town for Easter, and H is in town all week. Before I confronted him about OW, he had agreed to a night out and possibly another MC session w/ SH. That may have changed by now ...

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where would he go if you kicked him out.

Who knows? I guess wherever it is that he's been staying. He's only in town about 5-8 days/month, so its not like he needs an apartment right away.

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didnt you have an appt with a lawyer? did i miss that?

I did - for tomorrow. But I had to move it ... H was supposed to put $$$ in the account while out of town, but never did. So I ended having to pay all the bills out of my money, which meant having to move the appt.

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What I will do:


be the kind of wife a husband would be happy to come home to (within your own ability - you dont have to be superwoman unless you want to)

A much better one than what I said! Our friends have always called me SuperWoman ... now I have to live up to it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />