Well the facts are as follows: She's the first contact in the morning and usually the last at night. He calls her almost every time right after talking to me. They text msg each other about 10 times/day. Several people have called me concerned about how much they've been out together. I would at least constitute this as an EA. It is standing in the way of our M recovering. Whether its gotten physical or not, I'm unsure, but either way this chick has to go.