I do know where they go and I've thought about that. For instance, in a couple of weeks there is a festival here in town that they will be at. It has lots of fun stuff to do, so I thought about taking DD. BUT - I don't want her to see her dad with another woman! I may get a babysitter and go out with a gf soon.

I thought about the phone too, but then I won't be able to track the calls anymore. That only keeps me in the dark. There is a tiny bit of good news - the number of calls and tms has slowed down since I confronted him about her. And now it seems as though she is initiating most of the contact.