I have done a LOT of work on me! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

MEDC - what makes you think he isn't in some fog? (I realize that some of it is certainly pain from my A.)

Saturday night, he came home really late and had forgotten his house key. I had tried to call him several times to let him know and ask where I should hide a key, but he didn't answer his phone. So, when he called to get me to let him in, I answered joking with him about leaving him out there (not meanly) b/c he didn't answer my calls. Obviously I let him in. He came in the door, picked me up, and started kissing me like he hasn't in years! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> He went on and on about missing me ... but I just attributed it to alcohol (but must admit it was hard not to get encouraged). He admitted that he had seen OW for a bit that night (in public) and that he had told her a few days ago that I was keeping an eye on them (still don't know the full conversation). I'm afraid I've only driven them further underground by exposure, but the in-laws keep putting pressure on him to cut it out. I explained to him that he needn't maintain a friendship with someone (i.e. OW) who isn't a friend of the M.

Longhorn -
Easter dinner was good. At first, he just sat on the sidelines and watched us all be one big happy family. After a bit, he decided to join in. DD asked us something related to her toddler years, so MIL took the opportunity to bring out a photo album to show her ... and spent extra time on the photos of the 3 of us. She's great! At dessert, we were all seated and he got up from the table to get something extra for my plate. It was thoughtful.

So we spent the rest of the day as a family - he even kept off the cell phone! After we put DD to bed, he asked if I wanted to watch a movie with him. So, we did. I got up to get laundry to fold and he asked where I was going ... I explained what I was doing and he said "Just relax, sit down and watch the movie with me".

I woke up this morning and he was cuddled up to me in bed ... I know, I wasn't going to sleep in the same bed! But I went to bed alone - I don't know when he came to bed, but I didn't realize it until this morning.

Last edited by time_for_change; 04/09/07 02:15 PM.