He asked me to leave, but I didn't. Instead, I chose to immediately (1)go into NC, (2)have an STD test, (3)go to IC, (4)renew my relationship w/ God, and (5)begin doing what I should have done as a W all along.

Now I've asked him to leave if the A isn't over - same as he did. There's no sense in us pretending to be M while he continues his A right under my nose. As soon as he found out about mine, it was over ... I expect the same. If he wants to continue it, he can - but he can move out and do it instead. I am asking nothing more of him than he asked of me.

Last edited by time_for_change; 04/12/07 02:40 PM.