Well, I don't really care one way or another if he talks to her ... its just that she always contacts him (not vice versa) and puts him in a foul mood. She divorced OM, and H told me that he moved across the country. H is welcome to check up on me, but H also feels confident that I haven't been in contact with xOM (he told me this just today). H has been assured by me that he can do whatever he needs to for snooping on me.

I have certainly accepted that she will forever hate me and never forgive me. I have to live with that. But I don't have to live with the harassment that she puts along with that.

H hasn't had a chance to look for his own IC. I wondered if I should help him with this? I used to always do these types of things for him, but I don't want to overstep my bounds.

Last edited by time_for_change; 05/01/07 11:37 AM.