Okay, but please be careful with this. I think it has the potential to come off the wrong way to him if you aren't very, very cautious. Please keep it firmly fixed in your mind that you're only helping your husband find an IC. I'd go so far as to ask him to define the parameters of the search. Whether he feels he could better connect with a man or woman, for instance. Is age an issue? Is it all right with him if you look only for those who are pro-marriage? Etc., etc.

What happened to the SH session you were planning?