He will deny it, but the proof is in the bank statement. So, since I know the truth, no need to ask right?

If you are in Plan B, how did you know when to begin? I am struggling with the mind-heart sync thing that Orchid speaks of. And I have that icky A of my own hanging over my head ... which I think to some means that I have no reason to Plan B my H. But his A is over (as far as I can tell) and he's still not showing any real signs of deciding to be in a M.