Thanks, LH.

I have to say that I was rather impressed by my H yesterday. We were talking about something and it was apparently a trigger for him - though he brought up the conversation. He calmly said "Ugh! I just got [XOM] flashes. I hate that." I told him how sorry I was that he had to experience those, that it pains me that I did something that would bring ugly thoughts to his mind. He took a deep breath and just said it was ok and went back to talking. I felt so good that he was honest about having those feelings. I know that because I handled it calmly that he will feel like he can come to me with those feelings again.

He definitely remembered all the things on my EN questionnaire and I feel great! So how come there is a nagging feeling that something still isn't quite right?