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I'm sorry to hear that your sitch escalated into violence - I'm glad you were able to remove yourself from that. No one deserves to be treated that way. I've never feared my H getting physically abusive with me, besides, he does a thorough enough job of making me feel crazy

Thank you very much...thing is I didn't think that he would do the stuff that he was...but he was losing control of me...

I stopped conflict avoiding...learned my boundaries...and I got to the point that I did fear that the next step was him putting his hands on me...I mean he burned some of my books, SAA, HNHN, and two others...said that they were man hating books....

He tried to track me down on night when I left for a cooling off period...

I just wasn't giving him the opportunity to do anything stupid...

I, too, often felt like I was crazy...he would say things and then say that he didn't say them! What kind of bull is that? LMAO

Well, YOU, my dear, are doing a wonderful job...keep up the great work!


A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge.
Thomas Carlyle