Yes, you need to discuss particulars with him. He does seem to be saying the right things, but that's long distance, right? I'm concerned, based on prior posts you've made, that he's very good at placating you with good words from far away, but he seldom backs it up with action when he comes home. I think, if you agree with that assessment and if you’re truly sick of the way things have been going, it should be made clear that won't work this time.