You said before that I can't change his mind ... and I know that. But he has to want to ... I know that too. He seems wanting to change in some ways, but hesitant in many others. But the career comes first and a lot of the behaviors are blamed on the job ...

I am really hoping that we can settle some things in MC. But nothing is happening fast, that's for sure. Neither of us are patient people and we both want to solve things fast. Which means that we need to be going to MC a lot more frequently!