I am the guilty party in this matter and feel obligated to let my children know of my sorrow and intent to fix things.
I have began seeing a councelor, and will be referred to a specialist on friday. I have caused a great deal of pain that has severely damaged my marriage. I want to be there for the kids and i want to be there as a stable mature respectable father that can be trusted. My wife said "its all on me" and she is absolutley correct, IT IS.
I'm praying that my kids though they are hurt and dissipointed can be happy again.