I spoke with someone today who is a couson of OM. I asked if he would call OM's brother's wife and tell her how OM's brother is involved and assisting... also he is talking to my WW's sister.

the cousin said he would think about it and pray on it... he didn't know if he wanted to get involved.

I said that sometimes we need to make tough choices to do what is right. At the very least, would he get me the phone numbers. He did say he was thinking about calling OM himself. I don't see that helping, but it can't hurt.

BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.