Ok, what kind of divorced 48 yr. old man types in an email... with a picture of him with shades on sitting in his car... saying "you just want to see my twinkie"

Come on. Is he back in his teenage years? I think they are both reliving when she was 7 and he was 19... except now moved to rated PG rather than G.

That's when I stopped reading the emails... I had seen enough of what she wanted to do... and I didn't need to see her reply to that one.


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.