Mr. W.

I just spoke to my parents. My Father is a minister, a social worker, and a top Executive in the Church they are involved in. He feels your move-in idea is extremely "compelling" (his word). They just happen to be flying into town tomorrow morning, so I've asked him to join me in meeting with the lawyer as he knows the lawyer well and can assist me in building a plan.

What about the possibility of me moving in, and then my WW changing the locks the next time I go to work? What would be my response to that scenario?

Mel. I have partially written a new note to my MIL and SIL including some proof. Should I still send it if I am planning this new step?


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.