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Yes, I have decided that I will make all these changes. It does get hard some days. I am trying to STAY positive. I have not gone to any porn or other in months now. Best EVER, but not really something to brag, just self rewarding to be clean in the head.
I saw a counselor, but not a true Dr. and I don't know who to go see, and how to even decide to go. Busy life, and my wife is not fond of getting outside help (i.e. as proof).
I need her to keep trying, which she is. I expect her to hurt, but let it go with time. I know it will take months to get real response, real improvement in the relationship as a whole. I am trying to keep at it, not let it go without being dealt with after a few days. I try to give time between big discussions, and not to stop them without some sort of resolution or Understanding.
Time is hard to take as it is slow when there is problems. We are trying still...
Thanks for the advice and reassurance. I know she has her good days and bad days with dealing with me, but all in all it is not bad as it was in retrospect.
Engaged-1 yr. Married-6 yrs. Kids-4 and 6 W-3 yrs older Young couple headed for 30.
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RspctLostAtDay1
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Orchid
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RspctLostAtDay1
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Orchid
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RspctLostAtDay1
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Orchid
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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meremortal
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RspctLostAtDay1
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amartini
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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princessmeggy
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want2believe
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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LowExpectations
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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LovingAnyway
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meremortal
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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RspctLostAtDay1
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03/02/08 05:44 PM
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Hope that we can all learn from each other, here.
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RspctLostAtDay1
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03/02/08 06:07 PM
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MelodyLane
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10/07/07 01:53 PM
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RspctLostAtDay1
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10/07/07 09:29 PM
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RspctLostAtDay1
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TQueen
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