OK, my divorce has been final for a couple of years now, I really did work at trying to save my marriage, and WXH shows no signs of wanting another chance...

So I'm now getting (finally) to the point that I think it is time to move on now without any further hope of reunion with WXH.

My dilemma is that I'm pretty sure that once I do become involved with a new man then, and only then, my WXH will become interested in me again. But I would never use another man to try to get my WXH interested in me. And in all honesty if that is the only way my WXH would want me again, then that's simply not good enough for me anyway.

Part of me worries about WXH and how he will react when he realizes it's too late. His pattern is to only want what he can't have...

Last edited by meremortal; 01/02/08 03:10 PM.