she never sent me emails about her marriage. Even so, I agree it was wrong to allow the situation with the emails to continue as I did. It was cruel and insulting to allow something to look bad given how I betrayed her.

I have learned from then that ensuring her access to my email without hinderance is the only right thing to do. She has that currently and she will not lose that. In fact, when I interviewed for this job, access to email from home was a question I asked. How did it work. Was it available. If I would have found that there was not access, then I would have continued looking.

I realize it is important for frozen to have full access to my email. And she does.