What is rule number ONE about Plan A. NO EXPECTATIONS.

You have NO IDEA what she is noticing or not. And you are working this Plan for you, not for her.

What is your Plan A, how are you implementing it? What are you learning about yourself and what changes are you making that you want to make.


BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09