Hey WJ,

good to hear from you. This is the update I put on my other thread.

Well, she never would make a committment to our marriage. She wanted a D. So I went to an online place that does a great job of putting all the paper work together for a uncontested D. My W is being very civil and wants to remain friends. I agree. So I spent the $199 to do this and then as soon as we sign everything I file for $65. That was a week and a half ago. Right after that my W started treating me great. The whole week. I finally asked her if she was going to look over the paperwork or not. If she still wanted the D. She then told me that she was having doubts about the D. I thought "I just spent $199 to get you to that point?" So that's where I'm at. I don't know what to think. It would be worth the $199 if that's what it took, but after I had given up I really geared myself for everything. I had already clicked my brain over to being single again and having to worry about an apartment and everything else. I'm just kind of sitting on this for now, but I may have gone too far in my own mind and emotions. Maybe that's good. She's going to have to work some to keep the marriage alive. Because once I click that brain over I really don't care much one way or the other. I figured I would get to that point and I did. We'll see if she's willing to do what it takes to fix our marriage. Yes I still care for her and want to keep the M, but I have already calculated what life without her would be. I am still giving her the Plan A treatment, but if it ends...ok. I know that's sad, but it the truth.


So I haven't given up just near the end.

BS (me) : 43yo
WW: 41 yo
married 17+ yrs
D-Day #1 ONS Aug 03
D-Day #2 Dec 5, 2007
Four kids: 14 yo Son, 11 yo Son, 7 yo Daughter, 5 yo son

First Day on MB

Second Thread on MB