I realize that it was a mistake to leave and I don't plan on doing that anymore. I should note that he fully supported me in the first assignment because he knew how much my career means to me. But neither he nor I knew that he could not handle the separation. Call me stupid if you will, but I guess I believed that our love would be strong enough to deal with it. Trust me, the lesson has been learned.

I'll admit my marriage was not 'good' the way it should have been. Hence, why I adore this site. I really want to do better. If I knew then what I've learned, my life wouldn't be falling apart like it is. I don't know how to explain it, but WH and I are not good apart. We are so much better together (in a partnership way) . And now that I've learned the tools for a successful marriage, I just want the chance to be the spouse that I always should have been. Really hoping there is a veteran out there that can help me with that.