Ok- I'm here again.

With all this said. I really do LIKE my husband. I don't really want our relationship to end. I feel safe in it, and I like him- but I always feel like I settled. frown

I know there has to be others out there who feel like that, so how do you make a strong marriage feeling that way?

Also- the theory of MB is that you continue to build on the 'loving feeling', and make it last for a lifetime. So if I don't have that, am I doomed?

Even the bible talks about passionate human love in Song of Songs... it makes me feel like 'oopsy, I made a mistake. i certainly didn't feel THAT way.'