IMO my wife (smb) is not a WS, nor was she ever a WS. "I" was the WS.

smb had an A, but that does not mean she was a WS!

There's a huge difference. If I have to explain that difference, then you must be deft.

I would ask, since you weren't divorced when you were dating the woman you are now married to, does that make you a WS? Does that make what you have an affairage? If that were the case, your username should be myfamilyileave instead of myfamilyilove.

Last edited by tst; 04/26/09 09:41 PM. Reason: spellcheck

Recovery began 10/07;

Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.