You were not wrong to look. In fact, it's advocated and encouraged here to do that when you suspect something, otherwise you have no idea what you're up against.

I agree to work on yourself while you're gone, hold true to your morals if you can, think of your daughter's best interests, and call Dr. H.


"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.