Tabby, I think the woman's O may be important to guys because for us, engaging in that much activity without a release would be very uncomfortable. (Heard of Blue Balls?).
I think we just cannot imagine getting that aroused without a release and we may not know exactly understand how O's work for women and think it is like the ones we have.
I mean, it would be tortuous for a man to get that aroused and not get to have an O.
So, while theremay be an element of proving that you know what you are doing, I think there is also real concern that by not giving an O, you may make your partner uncomfortable.

Last edited by Zelmo; 11/25/09 11:17 AM.