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Thanks! Now I've seen it, and loved the dinosaurs.

You made me hungry, too. Not sure why - I don't normally eat rose petals.

Kimmy, I would never be so hypocritical as to call you crazy. (Even if you are. stickout)


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Dealan- Not only do people willingly live in those places we even GO OUTSIDE in it. I have to figure out how to upload my pictures to my computer and then I will post some of those for you as you asked. There is so much snow out already and they are calling for it to snow until Sunday. Just hope we don't get the dreaded January thaw too quickly or we will all be FLOODED.


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Supposedly Jan and Feb is when it starts getting cold around here.


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So they say.


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>Even if you are.

Someone else posted it.

I'll take my 105+ weather EVERYDAY over one day of sub zero.

Seriously. I'd never warm up. It was in the 40s last night and even with the heater, my pjs, sheets, 3 comforters and two blankies my feet NEVER got all the way warm. It was in the 30s this morning with frost on the car. WTHeck? I don't even OWN an ice scraper. I had to sit in the car till the ice melted. (the kids liked it...thought my teeth chattering was funny or sumptin)


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Originally Posted by Neak
Supposedly Jan and Feb is when it starts getting cold around here.

My nose hurts and the skin on my knuckles cracked just thinking about it.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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It gets colder here in February. Most of the snow we get in a winter comes in February and March so we aren't out of the woods yet, actually we are just beginning. In January we typically get a few days where it is above freezing. That is our January THAW. Then it comes all over again. At least we didn't get the freezing rain yet because walking the kids to school on ice rinks for streets tends to be funny for them but not for me.

DS6 is excited about planning his Bday party. We were actually going to do something else instead but with no car at home we will do the party. I think he will have more fun anyways.


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Originally Posted by Scotland
DS6 is excited about planning his Bday party. We were actually going to do something else instead but with no car at home we will do the party. I think he will have more fun anyways.

That's the spirit ! dance2

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How about a decorate your own cupcake party?


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AHHHHHH success on the computer front. I figured out what it was in a dream I had last night. My WH didn't want me to install another keylogger so he made it so only his profile could install things. I went on to his profile and installed the game and now the kids think I am their HERO. It is funny how such a small thing can make them soooooooooooooo HAPPY.

I knew I would and could do it on my own. I guess I just needed my subconscious to figure it out for me. Now if only it would stop showing me my WH to me over and over again. I dream about him EVERY NIGHT. It is mostly him coming home and seeming remorseful. The one where I was beating up POSOW was a good way for me to release my anger. Not just what I was doing in it but because of what she said to me. She said that what they have is fake and what WH and I have was built on REAL. I know it is what I want to hear but it did make me feel good.


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Without a doubt, WH dreams of you and the boys.

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AHHHH Pep- did you have to make my face leak. hehehehehe

I figured out DS9s IPOD too. It was the SAME issue. I am SMART hahahahahaha. Okay I need to calm down or I won't be able to leave my house because my head will be too big to fit through the door. hahahahahaha


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Be sure you play the mummy game! It's a hoot! My 6-yr old granddaughter played it at her BD party. You take rolls of toliet paper (or crepe paper) and divide up into teams. One person on each team is designated as the "mummy". Each team races to see who can use up their whole roll first on wrapping the mummy. It's a lot of fun and makes for great pictures!


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That is a good game. Dollar stores sell TP too.


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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Without a doubt, WH dreams of you and the boys.

Quick T/J.

Do you think my WH might dream of me even though we don't have children?

Thanks - end T/J


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Do you work? Do you dream about work? I dream of my job often. My WH and children aren't part of that and I still dream about it because it is a part of my life.

I am just saddened by my dreams lately because they are my wishes and when I wake up, they weren't real and sometimes it feels like it won't happen. I am only 18 days in to an intended long Plan B so I am keeping up hope and having FAITH. I am using this time to make decisions on my own about my life. I am learning things about relationships and people. I am learning how to have a good family and relationship with my kids, with or without my WH. I need to give them the best possible life and help them become the best adults possible.

I have done a good job so far and I intend on not dropping the ball on that. I am also trying to figure out what I want to "BE" when I grow up hehehehehe LOL


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Its hard for those southern folk to understand what a Jan. thaw is Scot. Specially when ya look outside and see snow while it is going on.

Yes I remember when I lived up north and the Jan thaw... lol

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Originally Posted by Scotland
I figured out DS9s IPOD too. It was the SAME issue. I am SMART hahahahahaha. Okay I need to calm down or I won't be able to leave my house because my head will be too big to fit through the door. hahahahahaha


Don't forget to ice your arm after you twisted it patting yourself on the back..

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No twisting it is long enough to do it without twisting. hehehehehehe


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I have no idea what I want to be when I grow up either so don't feel bad

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