I was sincerely hoping that this was not the only place that you've come for support, so I'm glad to hear that.

I just get the sense that there may be some lack of closure with regards to what you went through in your marriage, and was afraid in your unique situation as a widower that you would not achieve full closure here in a public and open forum out of loyalty to her.

I'm just glad that you have a more private setting where you can talk about it, perhaps more openly, so that you have options.

I think you're a very responsible dad, and I wish you continued good luck with everything.


"Stop yappin and make it happen."
"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Me 47
DH 46
Together for 28 years.
Married 21 years.