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I am taking care of me. I am eating better and sleeping GREAT most nights(except for those dreams). I bought myself a few pairs of pants from Walmart yesterday because they were on clearance and I figured with the way I have been losing weight(although I don't weigh myself so I don't have a number) that they would fit me by summer. I brought them home and tried them on and 2 pairs fit ALREADY. I haven't been this size since pre-kids. I was so excited.

As far as not seeing face to face, I could leave a book on DS7's booster seat, since WH has to get that to take DS7 in his truck.

Brainstorming, throwing things out there. I don't know if I could handle a face to face. I haven't seen him since Dec 18th.


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toe tap OK toe tap now toe tap waiting toe tap for toe tap Neak toe tap

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I am working on Plan A-ing the boys, although I never thought of it like that before. We started a tradition of movie night on Fridays, just before WH left. I also started family games night on Mondays(which DS9 tells WH what games we are playing and that he wants to hang up so he can play with me.) Even having the kids' friends come over for a visit is new. After school, we have always stayed late so they can play with their friends(and us Mom's can talk too). I keep the traditions alive, and try to make new ones. I will definitely make new ones.


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Originally Posted by Pepperband
toe tap OK toe tap now toe tap waiting toe tap for toe tap Neak toe tap

rotflmao

Ya shes good at this

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Im outta here takin Son to Dentists Later gaters

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The boys have dentist Appts Tomorrow morning. UG dentists laugh


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Nake doesn't answer her phone. I don't know where she is or when she'll be back. I think not having kids at home to school every day is making her giddy. That's what I think!MrRollieEyes

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Nake doesn't answer her phone.

Is that a nickname for Neak? If it is that's funny...that's my H's nickname for how he says he likes to see me most all of the time. wink


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Is that a nickname for Neak? If it is that's funny...that's my H's nickname for how he says he likes to see me most all of the time. wink
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Nake doesn't answer her phone.

Is that a nickname for Neak? If it is that's funny...that's my H's nickname for how he says he likes to see me most all of the time. wink

rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao


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Originally Posted by thndrnltng
Nake doesn't answer her phone. I don't know where she is or when she'll be back. I think not having kids at home to school every day is making her giddy. That's what I think!MrRollieEyes

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It is something that can wait. I just think Pep is a little IMPATIENT hahahahahahahaha


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Originally Posted by Scotland
It is something that can wait. I just think Pep is a little IMPATIENT hahahahahahahaha

I have a girl-crush on Neak, what can I say flirt

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We ALL girlcrush on Neak.


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Well, if she's outdoors and away from home being giddy, where, at this moment, it is -6F with a light snow and a windchill factor to -22F, all I can say is that I hope Neak ain't nake!mr eek

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I would hope that NEAK isn't NAKE in that weather either. It is cold here too but the SUN is SHINNING. It is a GLORIOUS day.

In an hour I will be picking up 4 boys from school for their play date and pizza dinner. So I won't be on until after family games night tonight, so no rush. But if anyone else has some ideas.

I also thought maybe I would contact a man who plays pool with WH and ask him which book on pool he would suggest I buy. He also teaches pool so he would know what book would be right for my WH's experience and aptitude.



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Scotty, your response to patriot was very good.
I cannot trust myself to post to him right now rant2

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I like the book idea, a new Star Wars book. Perhaps write in it, "We can still be a family, the boys deserve it, I deserve it, and especially you deserve it."

I would wear some of your new clothes, when he comes to the door to get the kids open it, tell him you miss him, give him a hug/kiss, hand him the book (with mail?), scoot the kids out, then shut the door...if he says he wants to talk, you can ask, are you no longer seeing OW? If the answer is no, then say, talk with me when she is gone, shut the door.

Or you could open the door when he comes to get the kids, be dressed and ready to go out, scoot the kids out, shut the door behind you as you walk out too, hand him the letter/package/book and get on your cell phone and say "I'm on my way" and giggle. Then walk to your car and head out... Never mind that you are driving around the block or just made plans to meet a friend for coffee, let him know you are not waiting at home but have a LIFE!


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A Pool-Billiards Movie DVD?

The Hustler
The Color of Money

brainstormin' .....

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hmmmmm we used to play for a pool hall called colour of money(yes I know I spell colour with a U I AM CANADIAN)


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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Scotty, your response to patriot was very good.
I cannot trust myself to post to him right now rant2

I know what you mean. Sometimes when I read some posts, I actually say things out loud. I am a CRAZY person.....SHHHHHHH don't tell anyone.

I try to be as gentle as possible, and I also try to see what works for certain people.

Although there were MANY MANY people who helped me see things, I attribute my newly BS fog being lifted by YOU.

I thank you and I hope I can repay some of your kindness by helping others in times when you can't HAHAHAHAHA

ASKING MYSELF WHAT WOULD PEP SAY?


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