Perhaps another woman could give me those reasons without requiring the extra income first. That doesn't mean Mrs. Hold can.

This is the saddest most heinous thing I have heard in a while. You know HOLD< your wife would not give you what you need EVEN IF YOU HAD MORE MONEY OR MADE MORE MONEY AND GAVE HER A CARTE BLANCH CREDIT CARD WITH NO LIMITS!

She would just continue her spending addictions which she likes so much and forget about what you need...as she is doing now to a smaller scale.

MORE MONEY WOULD NOT HELP YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOUR WIFE IS FUNDAMENTALY SELFISH!!!