Originally Posted by Still_Crazy
"We both contribute whatever it takes to make our relationship successful"

But your marriage is not successful, so apparently you don't. You wrote this in November when you had your thread moved to the Divorce Forum:

Originally Posted by StillCrazy
We have decided to quit working on the marriage and go our separate ways. However because of a lot of things it is easier to stay in the same house until we have to move out. I have moved into our ODD old room and we are living separately under the same roof as of this past weekend.

Do you think Dr Harley was right when he said this in the mission statement at the top of every page?

Originally Posted by Dr. Harley
Sometimes you may hear alternative opinions that conflict with Dr. Harley's Ten Basic Concepts. These are often raised by those who have not solved their own marital problems, but still feel they are qualified to advise others.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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