I'm really happy for you Hold! I think it's great that your wife is stepping up to the plate and attempting to be more of a financial partner with you.

(and you thought I was talking about the sex, didn't you?)


Actually, I would not be surprised if the two things are very interrelated for her. Financial issues and sex issue. Money and sex are both synonomous with power. It's no surprise that as she reached out on the money thing she also became more receptive on the sex side too. As you stopped holding $$ over her head, she stopped holding sex over your head.