A young woman who cheats so soon into a marriage is not worthy of being married to.

Mrs. RIF was 18. I was 24.

Why settle for sloppy seconds and go through the pain and anguish of recovery with someone like that?

This is a very disrespectful comment. So does that mean that I "settled" for sloppy 7ths??? Please, if you wish to make comments like this, please find another forum.

This situation puts a real burden on a person's heart.

I agree 100%! Mrs. RIF had her first A while I was in my basic course, had 6 more while we were assigned over seas during our first thee years of M. Didn't confess to the othe A's until December 2000. Took us 2.5 years to rebuild. So, lets see.... what was that, about 15 years of a burdened/broken heart.

For me, I have no regrets.

Semper Fi,


Last edited by RIF; 04/23/10 11:51 AM. Reason: spelling

Me, BS

Her, Forgiven

Married Dec 86

Multiple A's that ended '90

Rebuilding In Faith since then...

Currently deployed to Iraq, but TEXAS is Home!