Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
So there's no need to respond to this?

You respond with your actions. If you act like it isn't over by continuing to email, call, and deposit money into her account, you are responding to her that it isn't over without getting involved in a love busting relationship talk. If anything, the only thing I would write in my next email is, "I understand how you feel, but it's not over for me, so I'm going to continue to be the very best man I can be. If you want to ignore it, that's your choice, but my choice is to keep trying.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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