You know maybe we need to define what 'relationship talk' is.

Your reply above, is not relationship talk to me.
That is an honest statement of your intention, without lovebusting.
It's also fair to tell WW that her actions have been hurtful to you. That is truth, not lovebusting.

Relationship talk to me is ......... WW what are you willing to do to recover this M? ...... I think we should do MC ...... Here is some MB books, let's read them together ect. ect. ect.
(these are quick off the top of my head, maybe not the best ones)

Gotta scoot, they'll sort it out for you.
You're doing great, it's a tough road.


M'd 22 years
BW-me
D-Day 08/08 LTA