Hey Gurka,

I don't think that there's any "right or wrong" call here, so my recommendation would be to do what you feel the most comfortable with.

The recommendations that we're giving you are suggestions based on our own personal situations, and from what we've seen here on the boards over the years.

I think that the main issue is that you not get sucked into any e-mail battles with your W. If you can state your position clearly without sounding needy, or bashing her, and you feel more comfortable doing that now, then by all means, you should e-mail her!

Ultimately, you are the one that's living this out... trust your instincts!

Semper Fi,