Unless her heart as turned to rock, this could scrape away a lot of the callous she has built around it. I believe she is a romantic too. And that she may put up a good front, but when she hears "Forsaking all others do you promise to keep yourself only unto him (loose paraphrase)" that she could become a mascara and snot running mess. Not to mention what she will be thinking about herself when her family looks at her. This could be a great benefit to Gurka.