Record the conversation when she calls, and she'll probably call by tomorrow morning your time. In fact, I bet she doesn't care if it is 0300, if she wants to yell at you, she's not going to be considerate enough to do it at a reasonable hour.

Try to get her to talk about anything other than your relationship. Ask her about her sister and the wedding preparations, plans for her birthday, etc. I know she won't talk about it.

As for the stuff and the marriage, tell her you have made your decision, and you are not talking about it anymore. "We're not going to agree, so let's just drop it and move on."

Jim

BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
Jim's Story