Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
I'm ignoring it. But I'm supposed to call her in an hour. I didn't get a response from her mother.

You know Gerk, I was thinking that if someone emailed me telling me my daughter told them my H was dying, WHEN HE WASN'T, I'd be too sick to reply back to them.

If your FIL IS ill. You did the right thing by offering to help. MIL will not see evil where there isn't any. (That "gift" is reserved for waywards.) Give her time to respond. If she doesn't, then you'll have to accept the fact that blood is thicker than mud. She just doesn't want to rock the boat w/ her daughter...especially not at this difficult time.