Screw OM. He's the one that would have done harm to his children.

Gerka,

WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!

Stop replying to her emails. No f-ing relationship talk. You don't want to piss me off, remember?

She's trying to bait you and you are falling for it hook line and sinker. If you would stop responding to her bait, she would realize that baiting you doesn't work and would eventually stop.

As far as her being mentally ill, yeah, I bet she has Borderline Personality Disorder. This is what we were telling you 100 pages back, but you wanted to try and save this. That's fine, either you'll save this or in the process of trying to save this, you'll realize that you want nothing to do with this woman anymore because she's a selfish nutjob. That is why I didn't push anything. She'll either revert back to your good wife after withdrawal is over, or she'll reveal herself to be the whackjob you didn't realize you were marrying. Either way, you win. It would be better to get divorced now than to be stuck in a bad marriage, trust me.

But no more responding to her emails. You are just adding fuel to the crazy fire.