I have been having an online affair for over a year now. In my head I know it should end, but my heart is having trouble letting go. I need any kind of advise from anyone that has been in the same situation. We are both married and he lives 4 hours away. So, that has made it hard for us to meet in person.....or should I say that it's a good thing that he live that far. If he was closer I would think that my marriage would have already been totally destroyed.