And I sent a short email to my WW:

Hey Gurka - Your first two e-mails were perfect! I would have recommended NOT sending the last one to your WW...

I know that you want to connect with her, and I know that your thoughts are "how could she NOT see what she's doing"... Relationship e-mails like this will just give your WW more reasons to 'justify' her actions. She will most likely take this e-mail as you trying to 'educate' her.

I agree 100% with everything that you wrote to your WW... she's not going to "think about" what she's done wrong, because in her mind, she hasn't done anything wrong. It will take some time for her to get there...

It's already over 104 here today... glad I've got an "inside" job!

Semper Fi,