My husband had an affair a little over 5yrs ago while he was deployed. We are a military family. We have done everything we are "supposed" to do...read all the books....been in marriage counseling and individual counseling...with Pastors and secular.

I still hurt over it. He has done all that he knows to do....I have done all I know to do.

What now? How can I hold my marriage and family together? At this point it is all me. I can't seem to let go of the hurt he inflicted on me. I was devoted to him in all ways.