Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
The "how much would it take" comment is a terrible idea. She specifically cited sarcasm as something she didn't appreciate on her EN questionnnaire.

So was the hide in Korea for 3 years idea, but I didn't give you crap about it. laugh Many of my posts are meant to provide some comic relief.

So, I'm assuming she called you back since yesterday? As for the relationship talk, it is okay to have some, but only non-divorce relationship talk initiated by her that does not lead to love busting. You just need to keep treading lightly and quickly abort and table the talks when things start getting sticky. I've always thought recovering a marriage is like a complicated series of dance steps. Once you get out of rhythm, you have got to quickly get back or it all falls apart.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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