Originally Posted by markos
Gerka, do you have your Plan B plans in place, yet? Letter written, lawyer contacted about legal details for separation and how to use the law to implement Plan B?

I always think people should make plans for Plan B at the beginning of Plan A. I think I read Dr. Harley saying the same, yesterday...

Here it is:

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8111_quit.html

Originally Posted by Dr. Harley
But before you begin plan A, prepare for plan B, which is to completely separate from your husband. You can't simply move out of the bedroom. You must move from the house, or have him move. If you live in a state that supports legal separation, go to the trouble to see an attorney so that all financial and legal arrangements are made in advance.

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