Originally Posted by Gerkaguards
At this point my LB has taken so many hits, my main motivation is not failing at marriage. Not quitting, not giving up.

You didn't fail, she did. The only thing that you possibly failed at was choosing your mate. Don't let stubbornness and pride get in the way of your happiness (like it is getting in the way of your WW's happiness). Trust me, once you are out of this marriage and can take a step back and look at things objectively, you'll be relieved that you "failed" at this marriage. 5 years from now when you are with your future wife who is much more suitable because you were much smarter about choosing one the second time, you'll look back at all of this and think, "I'm so glad I didn't settle for that when I am so happy with my new wife now. I didn't know that marriage could be this good."

Last edited by jmwc95; 07/15/10 07:22 AM.


BS - 32 (me)
FWW - 33
Married 8/31/03
No kids (but 3 cats)
D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA)
NC agreed to - 11/8/06
NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07
Status - In Recovery
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